Paying It Forward: Staying Alive

[WARNING: If you click this video you may hum a song the rest of the day. If that helps you remember the appropriate pace for CPR chest compressions, it’s worth a little earworm.]

Six months after my cardiac arrest and resuscitation, I was back in the hospital with breathing problems. I feared it was COVID. When the diagnosis turned out to be pulmonary embolism, I was strangely relieved, not knowing it would take a year to clear.

Before I left the hospital I had a teachable moment with the internist who treated me. I’ll call him Dr. N. He was a slender man in monotone hospital scrubs and a brilliantly-colored turban. I think he was a Sikh.

Dr. N began morning rounds the traditional way. “How do you feel?”

“Good! I just took a stroll around the ward on the arm of a pretty young occupational therapist.”

“I saw that.  I didn’t want to interrupt.” He listened to my lungs and checked the IV site where a heparin line was pulled an hour earlier. “We worked out other medications. You can go home today with a rew restrictions. You will heal better there.

I interrupted him. “My son is on his way over here. I’d like him to hear your instructions.”

“I called him while you had your walk,” Dr. N said. “He knows what to do. You’re in good hands.”

Indeed. That’s when I told him how Brendan performed CPR on me.

“So he had the training?”

“He had BLS. And the 911 dispatcher stayed on the phone to coach him through the pacing.”

“Broken ribs?”

“No. Severely bruised.”

“Clearly, he got it right.”

Dr. N paused, then he beamed. “You know how we learned CPR when I was in medical school? We learned that Bee Gees song, ‘Staying Alive’.”

Dr. N spun around slowly like a Sufi, singing “Ah- ha- ha- ha- Staying-Alive- Staying-Alive”. As he spun around he thrust his arms and crossed hands downward, making emphatic chest compressions in the air.

Had someone been there to shoot a TikTok video, it would deserve to have a million views. I repeated his words and moves to get the beat.

“Faster,” he urged. We sang it together. “Ah- ha- ha- ha- Staying-Alive- Staying-Alive.”

Dr. N approved. “That’s it. Keep that pace.”

“I will,” I vowed, “if I ever need to pay it forward.”

 

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